I read this very informative article on fair fighting! As a pastor, I was intrigued by the biblical verses that accompanied the article found here: fair-fighting.pdf (livinghopechurch.net) . And as an advocate against domestic violence I was captured by the fact that all relationships have their disagreements (fights). For me personally, as a survivor of domestic violence, I am constantly learning about the rules of fair fighting.
I have a fight or flight mentality and this is not a healthy way of fighting, but it was a way that I could protect myself from harm in my younger days. I encourage all survivors to read the article and find a way to learn how to fight healthy.